Monday 23 September 2013

Why do people quickly find faults in one another but are slow to see the good?

A lot of People love to find fault with others


People today are more interested in finding faults rather than the good in others. Whatever we see in others is only a reflection of our own self. If we accuse somebody as bad, it is just that our feeling toward s that person is bad. Whatever impression we have about others is a reflection of our feeling towards them. Everything is just reflection, reaction, and resound. Therefore, you should not find fault with others. You do not have the right to find fault, because your assessment of a person is limited to your experience with him. No one has the right to criticize others. There are so many aspects of the personality of the person that you do not know.

There are three things you must do in life:1. You should try to do good to those that have done harm to you.2. You should forget two things. Forget the harm done by others to you; otherwise, you will harbour vengeance to retaliate. Secondly, forget the help you did to others; otherwise, you will expect a reward from them, which will result in disappointment when it is not forthcoming. By observing these two norms, the purity of your heart will be maintained.3. You should be grateful to any person who has come to your rescue in a time of crisis. You should not forget the help done by others. You must remember the good that others have done to you as something sacred and you must express your gratitude to them